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  1. Jerry Klinger in Boynton Beach, Florida

    Thank you, Rabbi.

    Absolutely agree with you. Unless Holocaust memory is mandatory, incorporated into religious observance, it will vanish into the dark future.
    A few years back, Yom Kippur, our Congregational Rabbi, realized he was running very late. He arbitrarily eliminated the Holocaust Memorial section to speed things up.
    I was shocked. My wife and I went to see him a few days later. He was quite nervous. First, he knew about my deep ties to Holocaust memory. The second thing was that I was the synagogue president, and he was afraid of his walking papers.
    He did the mea culpa and never eliminated the Holocaust again from our service.
    One of my synagogue jobs was as the school board president. We followed the Board of Jewish Education guidelines for Holocaust education by having one day a school year dedicated to learning about the Holocaust.
    Invariably, at the next school board meeting, parents would come in outraged. “How dare we traumatize their children? Holocaust education, where, when and how is up to them. Not the synagogue school.”
    The reality is that Yom Hashoah attendance has been reduced from every synagogue to one site, region-wide. And then it is not heavily populated except by seniors. In Israel, I have seen the two-minute siren on Yom Hashoah when all the cars are supposed to stop, and people get out and stand in silence, become an opportunity to make the light while others are sitting. Now with Oct. 7, the second Holocaust, people, confusedly, do not know how to honor the memories of the first Holocaust or the second mini one. They end up not doing much for either.

    I have long advocated for a simple Holocaust prayer that all branches of Judaism will recite, even the Haredim. The fly in the ointment, the Haredim do not respect Holocaust memory. El Moleh Rachamim and Tisha b’Av is enough for them.

    As one Rabbi put it to me, Why can’t we remember the Holocaust? He said it was because it was too soon to remember and interpret. Maybe in 200-300 years there will be something. What he was really saying is that all generational memory will have died. No one will be asking where was God? Without saying so, it was better for that Rabbi for the Holocaust to go away rather than answer the existential questions.

    Again, thank you for what you are doing. I fully support your efforts.

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