Tales of the comforter, consultant and facilitator

 A while back, a young woman asked if she could come over and talk to me. She reads my columns and finds them useful. I was happy to help.

She came over, and we both sat down on my sofa. I asked her why she had come. She burst into tears. When she finally was able to speak, she told me that her long-term partner had left her. I was holding her hand as she spoke. [By Natasha Josefowitz, Ph.D, ACSW]

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Lifestyles, Natasha Josefowitz

In reply to 140 U.S. Jewish leaders

What if American Jews read on the front pages of The New York Times and the Washington Post that Israeli Jews would estrange themselves from American Jews, if the latter chose to vote for a president who was lukewarm on Israel, instead of one who was very pro-Israel? Americans would be piqued that Israelis expected them to vote as if Israel were at the top of their priority list! [Steve Kramer]

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Middle East, Steve Kramer, USA

Addressing Bible difficulties

It is only in recent times that Yeshivas (post-high-school religious schools) began again to teach Bible. The problem that the rabbis faced was that enlightenment scholars raised multiple questions about the Bible, questions that seemed to show that God did not write or inspire the Bible, but that it was composed by many different authors with different agendas, some of whom made mistakes. The Yeshiva rabbis did not know how to respond to the attacks. So, the rabbis stopped teaching Bible and told students that if they wanted to study the Torah they should do so on their own. Instead, the rabbis taught only Talmud and ethical books. This situation existed when I attended a prominent Yeshiva in the 1950s. [Rabbi Dr. Israel Drazin]

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Books, Poetry & Short Stories, Israel Drazin-Rabbi Dr., Jewish Religion

‘Plum Rains’ peeks into potential future

Plum Rains by Andromeda Romano-Lax is a novel set in the immediate future: 2029.  As such many common and universal human failings are on full display.  Greed, disdain, and full blown discrimination against people who are “others,” those who are not exactly like us, or who are like us, but from a slightly different location.  All of these human failings are all on full display throughout the novel. [Pamela Pollack Fremd]

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Theatre, Film & Broadcast, Travel and Food

Standing with the Asian community

I sympathize with the more than 50 Asian and Pacific Islander organizations in San Diego that have issued a statement urging San Diegans to avoid using terms such as the “China virus,”  “Chinese virus,” or the “Wuhan virus” as these descriptions have the effect, whether intended or not, of fanning latent racism among non-API residents. [Our Shtetl San Diego County column by Donald H. Harrison]

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Donald H. Harrison, Fred Kropveld, International, San Diego County, USA

Living ‘happily ever after’ COVID19

Small spaces with little way out 24 hours a day, seven days a week, present a real test to any marital relationship. Will sheltering-at-home result in increased marital strain and divorce in America as it has in China, where divorce rates have already increased sharply during the COVID19 pandemic? Iran has witnessed significantly increasing marital detachment since the quarantine went into effect in that country. The UK is also vigilant with the British Parliament warning to expect a spike in divorce. The chatter among matrimonial-family law and relationship experts in the United States is to anticipate similar tribulations in marriage during this country’s extended confinement. [Michael Mantell, Ph.D]

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Lifestyles, Michael Mantell